☕ a nerdybimbo.nexus community · mostly SFW

Pull up a chair.
You belong here.

Queer Nexus is a cozy, actively moderated corner of Matrix for 2SLGBTQIA+ folks and the people who love them. Chat, vent, question, celebrate — no footnotes, no explaining yourself, no debate about whether you're valid.

Save me a seat 💜See what's on the menu
everyone's welcome at this table
she/herhe/himthey/themany/allask me!
Grab a pronoun sticker in Bot Commands — !iam they/them
your name tag

Tell us who you are — only if you want to

In the 🤖 Bot Commands room, pick up pronoun tags and they appear on your role card. Anyone can check it with !whois, so nobody has to guess. Take one, several, or none at all.

!iam she/her!iam he/him!iam they/them!iam any/all!iam ask-me

Changed your mind? !iamnot they/them takes it back off. Your pronoun tags follow you into every space on the server.

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House agreements

A safe space takes a little work from all of us. These are the promises we make to each other.

Nobody debates your existence

Zero tolerance for transphobia, homophobia, biphobia, enbyphobia or acephobia. Identities aren't up for debate — they're valid.

Names & pronouns, always

Use the names and pronouns people give you. Slipped up? Correct yourself and move on — no big speech needed.

Kindness over cleverness

No harassment, doxxing, targeted abuse, racism, sexism, ableism or any other bigotry.

Content-warn the heavy stuff

Add a CW for dysphoria, health, family rejection, self-harm and other hard topics.

Keep it SFW

This is a mostly-SFW café. Explicit content lives in Porncess Peach's Palace.

Respect DM boundaries

Put your DM preference in your display name or status — DMs open · ask first · no DMs — and honour everyone else's.

Adults only

Everyone here is 18+. That's server-wide, not just this space.

Report, don't fight

See something off? Tell a moderator rather than dogpiling. Our moderation bot and humans handle it.

The fine print, gently: everyone is also bound by the server terms. Data is stored on EU servers (Hetzner, Germany) under GDPR. Direct messages and private chats are end-to-end encrypted; community channels aren't, so moderators can keep them safe. Full details in our privacy policy. Questions or data requests: porncesspeach@nerdybimbo.nexus.

Other spaces on the server: 🌸 Porncess Peach's Palace · 🎲 Table Top Talk · 🔮 Esoteric & Occult Club

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How to get in

Four easy steps. Doorbot, our friendly bot, does most of the work.

1

Get an account

Sign up below with an invite code — or, if you already use Matrix anywhere, join #welcome.

2

Doorbot says hi

Signed up here? You've already agreed to the rules, and your Queer Nexus invite is waiting. From another server? Type !agree, then !join queer.

3

Come on in

Accept the invite and you land in 📌 Welcome & Rules. Browse the space and join whichever rooms feel right.

4

Make it yours

In 🤖 Bot Commands: !iam they/them for pronouns, !whois to see someone's card, !help for the rest.

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Save me a seat

Already on Matrix? Keep your account. Join #welcome:nerdybimbo.nexus from your own app and Doorbot will message you to get set up. No invite code needed.
New to Matrix? Make an account here with an invite code — members and staff hand them out in waves. It works in Cinny (our web app), Element, FluffyChat, or any Matrix app.

Already have a nerdybimbo.nexus account? Log in to check your password and hop over to Cinny.

Checks your password, then opens Cinny, our web app — you log in there too.

Quick check that you're human.

Check your email and click the verification link we sent — this page finishes by itself once you have. (You can close it and come back later too.)

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Your seat is saved

Your account is ready! Open Cinny and log in — Doorbot will be waiting in your messages with your Queer Nexus invite. Accept it and come on in.

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